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I have an interesting discussion with my buddy…

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It happened some times back, I wanna post it up but too bad I don’t have access to the net that time. The topic just came out from nowhere .. ( you have got to ask her how she came up with this funny topic, probably she will tell you: Hey, that is the latest topic of discussion in Cleo!)

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What would you like to do most with your guy?

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Don’t be narrow minded, it can be anything but sex. (ehem, if all you can think of is sex, sorry to say but you are just too lack of creativity!) (but throw this question to any guy, you get only one answer: sex, or make love or any of its equivalent)

We came up with ideas quite similar… okay.. actually it is my buddy that came up with her original ideas first, and I seconded, and added more details…

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Travel
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yeahh… go travelling with some one you love is trully amazing.. go to some places that both of you never visit before, and explore it together.. try exortic food (not me, I don’t eat weirs stuffs).. and most importantly, it’s the time when all you have is him, and all he has is you. It brings you two closest instantly…  hmm… it would be romantic.

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Hangout
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Maybe this just apply to us both, since we are kind of introvert, and extrovert at the same time. We want our guy to be able to hangout in bookstore for hours with us,  and bury with books, and yet can make the whole table laugh at his joke in party. hmm… tough… where to get this type of guys?  Probably when men set the standard that gf should be able to "go in kitchen and come out living room", we set the equivalent with "hangout long hours in bookstore and come out and impress everybody with your humor". Sense of humor, is important in a relationship. It adds sparks and chase away dullness, a friend said. But I do believe sense of humor is innate. Anyway, I added some more thing here. I wish my guy can write beautiful sentences, or at least, knowing to appreciate them if I happened to write him some.

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Buddy: nowadays I would just close the chat window when first sentence from the other side is of bad grammer, or just asl!

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Sex on the beach
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okay! I need to clarify, this is not my idea. I actually have my jaw falls to the ground when I heard it. What is it so important???

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Buddy said: well, to me it is important! Don’t you think this is soooooo romantic? On the beach with fine white sand, cooling sea breeze, soothing wave sound, and the starry sky…

Me: What if someone see?…

Buddy: of course find la some beach with more privacy!

Me: …… what if sand got into the place????

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Las but not least, mosquitoes bite you ar!

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Most of the times, I would just wish to spend the sluggish rainy sunday afternoon at home cuddling with my guy on the sofa and watch Sex and the City or CSI.

Changes, has been too frequent in my life these few years.

I stayed 4 years in the same company, and changed 4 jobs within 12 months; my heart was smashed, and I smashed someone’s too; one moment I was nagging about me being unemployed, the next moment I was on the way flying to US for my new job; I just found a new place to stay, and now I need to move again; I just discovered that Friday 7.30 pm Sri Maju bus depart from PG for Ipoh without stopping at Jeti, and now I start thinking how jam it is from Subang to Midvalley; I booked Sandy that we will attend Kim Hoon’s wedding dinner together at Kedah, and not going to ah Lun’s; and now I have to give up Kim Hoon’s and attending ah Lun’s at KL. When I think I can take a break and catch my breathe, something unpredictable will happen. Good or bad, hard to say..

I can only say nature has its courses. Human intervention is just a little part of it. What I can do, is to do my best in everything, consider all the pros and cons that I can think of, avoid making hasty decisions. At least, there still something I can do, so I don’t feel totally out of control, or helpless… I feel like clutching on rotten log in swift current… well, at least there is a log..

  Perhaps I complain too much. God has been merciful to me.   The road to destination is painful, and almost unbearable.. but, I would still able to walk all the way, and reach there. And dear friends, I won’t be here without your support. I owe you a big hug.. ^_^

  The yummy tough cookie will go on…